Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Love Affair

Spice Up Your Love Affair

Every relationship have ups and downs, just like how you are sailing a ship on an open ocean.  Its not shocking to see couple who have been together for so long decided to part ways, take Angeline Jolie for example.  After 10 years of being together, the couple has decided to call it off.  To keep a relationship is hard but to maintain it even harder.  You need to have the sparks to keep going on.   

What It Takes To Maintain A Relationship?.


So far, there is no proven formula on what it takes to maintain a relationship.  This is because each individual characteristics is unique from one another and what works for you might not works for others.  For me, I always keep 2 things in mind when it comes to happy relationship.

  1. Being transparent to each other, at all times.
  2. Treat your partner like how you want to be treated.

If you always transparent with each other you don't have to worry at times when he caught you talking to some other guy, or when you are out with your colleagues for a drink for work purposes.  You can save yourself from a lot of drama which involves your lover goes all jealous and overprotective mode.

On point number 2, how you treat your partner is how you are likely to be treated.  Say you love to be pampered and showered with gifts, then do the same to your partner.  Even if you just help him to purchase a shaver for him to trim his beard.  Its the efforts that count.

Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Love Affair

The moment you wake up, take this as your daily job i.e to incorporate your love affair in your daily routine.  Many people love to complaint about their love life being dull and faded after few years, but only a few taking the action to spice up their love affair.  Read below for the things you can do.

1.  Be your partner's biggest cheerleader

Remember why you be in relationship with him?.  The answer is simple, because you like him.  Being your partner biggest fan is letting him know that you like what he did especially if he accomplished something.  Always be the first to congratulate or console him whenever he is down or things didn't go according to the plan at work.  Give him the attention he deserves.  You as the fan should let him know that you will always be his side. 

2.  Shower your partner with surprises or gifts

Gifts are not necessarily to be given on a special occasion, but it can be given during any time as a surprises.  Idea:  cook your lover's favorite meal for dinner, watch a good movie afterwards or end the night by cuddling.  Don't be afraid to experiment new ideas or ways to keep your relationship fresh and exciting.  

3.  Go on a holiday together

Once in a while its good to be away from the hustle and bustle of the city.  While we are too busy in making a living,  we tend to forget other aspects of life which is to enjoy the moment.  Being in a relationship, you can also do that.  Just pick a random place, pack your bags and spend the quality time together.

4.  Like his post or photos on social media 

Things you do before you and him were together such as following each other on social media accounts, like his new post or photos on Instagram, drop a comment or two and includes those cute emoticons, it has to go on.  Even if you are not the social media type of couples, but it feels good to double tap the photos he uploaded from dinner last night with both of you smiling happily into the camera.

5.  Establish a couple rituals

Other than the tips mentioned above, you can also try or probably already doing this.  Establish a couple rituals with your partner.  This includes going for a walk on Sunday morning, cooking dinner together on Wednesday night, going out on a movie date on Friday, etc.   By establishing activity that can be done together your relationship with your partner will bonds stronger. 

A Successful Relationship Requires Falling in Love Multiple Times, But Always With the Same Person.   

Every relationship will be tested at one point.  Of course, its not always sunshine and rainbows but you have to be strong and knows how to handle the situation while still remain together.  Just dont keep things to yourself and seek help if you find that you cannot handle the situation.

Stay positive, its what makes the relationship happy.

18 comments

  1. thanks for sharing this. im still not in serious relationship. take this as a note for future use :)

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    1. Yes, this shall be your future reference then. Happy finding your loved ones

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  2. Thanks for the great tips =) I make sure to achieve in the future!

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    1. Welcome sharon. With hard work and determination you will surely can.

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  3. Beautiful tips...These things are so necessary to keep the love going!

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    1. Welcome. Love needs constant attention just like growing a seed to become a tree

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  4. totally agree with these tips! It is essential to continue the "chasing" period...even after a couple has gotten together..

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    1. yes. Uts very crucial to do things to maintain the relationship and to keep the sparks going on.

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  5. The tips No.4 is surely for the millenium couples.. hehe.
    Some of my friends hide their SocMed from their other half as they need that space to express themselves. Funny right?

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    1. Well, for this i have to agree with you. But why dont just be transparent from day 1?. It can save a lot of hassle in the future.

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  6. very good reminder list. not just love partner, but applicable to our family members as well :)

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  7. Being transparent is a must. Its easy to say but hard to do.
    Am lucky and been use to being transparent to my Dada.. I've been sharing to him anything, (even my office gossips, lol) and he's cool about it. He is my bestfriend and our bond becomes more strong.

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    1. that is what we called as soulmate. :) lucky you to have found such a good companion, a partner you can share almost everything with.

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  8. I love the tip on couple rituals. Like ordering a pizza from Dominoes and sharing it with my hubby is our favourite thing to do all week. Simple yet so us!

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    1. aww.. yes you go girl!. The couple rituals is a must to keep the spark going on.

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  9. this is great tips... i was half expecting some 50 shades of grey with the cover picture... lol

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    1. sorry to disappoint you that this is not anywhere talking about the 50 shades, perhaps next post would do it. :)

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